Wednesday, 26 June 2013

KEEP PURSUING YOUR DREAMS







One of the hardest things to do is to keep dreaming when everything else seems to be working against you, or when your dreams seem to be impossible. This is the moment when a lot of people simply give up.
I agree that "being in the hallway" is not easy. But believe me - it pays off to be persistent! The in-between-time is when you need to keep pushing harder than ever!
Almost every successful person has had to learn the importance of persistence, perseverance, and faith in what you know you can do! Those lead to endless possibilities. .
What do you do when your dreams seems impossible?

  • 1    UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR DREAMS WILL ALWAYS ATTRACT CHALLENGES

The moment you begin to verbalise your dreams and aspirations, be rest assured that there will be plans by the enemy to kill your dreams. You need to understand that whatever good thing God wants to give you will always attracts challenges, but you need to believe that God will make all things work out for your good.


  • 2     LOOK TO GOD

In the midst of the seemingly discouraging position you might find yourself at this stage, the wisest thing to do is to fall on God. Cast your burden and cares on him, because he cares for you. Unburden your heart to him in the place of prayers, let his peace reign in your heart and his presence abide with you.


  • 3      UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS A TIME AND SEASON OF PREPARATION

There is a season of preparation when God allows you to go through some experiences to prepare you for where you are going. It was clear the God needed to allow Joseph go through the experiences he went through to prepare him. He was the favourite and pampered son of his father, and could have made a mess of a leadership position. However, life as a slave and prisoner helped him strong and mature. Through it all, he kept his faith and trust in God.


  • 4      WATCH YOUR ATTITUDE

Attitude is everything! Understand that God would make all things work together for his good. Chose to have a positive attitude.


  • 5      IN ALL THINGS, NEVER COMPROMISE

In the season of waiting, many opportunities will tempt you to look for a seemingly faster and easier way of having your dreams fulfilled. However understand that it is a trap from the pit of hell to soil your testimony and relationship with God, for he said “......how then can i do this great wickedness, and sin against God.....?” (Genesis 39:9). No matter what you are going through now, please do not compromise your stand and testimony as a child of God.


  • 6      BE A PROBLEM SOLVER AND MEET THE NEEDS OF OTHERS

In the season of waiting for the manifestation of your dreams, what you do is very important. Rather than spend your days moaning, whining and complaining, take a cue from Joseph, spend your time helping others to solve problems with the skill you have. It was clear that Joseph was an excellent administrator; he displayed this ability both in potiphar’s household and in prison, so well that he was put in charge in both places.


  • 7      PREPARE FOR WHERE YOU ARE GOING

Finally, has God reassured you that those dreams will surely come to pass? Then, as you wait for the manifestation, begin to prepare for where you are going. Likewise, as you prepare to see the manifestation of your dreams, ‘shave off every wrong mindset, beliefs and attitudes that will not add value to where you are going. Then, ‘change your raiment’; remove every wrong identity and labels that have been placed on you by people. Have you been told that you cannot make it in life? Have you been called names, such as ‘slave’ or ‘prisoner’? Have you been given certain labels that demean and bring you down? Then, take those garments off, and put on your identity and priestly attire in Christ Jesus. You were saved to reign, to be in charge, to have dominion and to glorify God. Believe only this! Even if you haven’t gotten there yet, begin to live as though you are there, so that when you finally get there you will be ready for it!



Thursday, 20 June 2013

GOD WANTS YOU TO BE HAPPY





It isn’t always politically correct in Christian circles to talk about being happy. We talk about feeling blessed or finding joy in the Lord, but we don’t tell people to seek happiness. I believe it is Scriptural to seek happiness. Let me explain.
What is happiness? Happy is defined as “delighted, pleased, or glad, as over a particular thing; characterized by or indicative of pleasure, contentment or joy” and happiness is defined as “the quality or state of being happy” (Random House Webster’s College Dictionary, 1999).
God made us in his image. God experiences delight, pleasure, contentment, gladness, and joy so God experiences happiness. Why wouldn’t he want us to experience the same thing? And why would he only want us to experience happiness in the spiritual realm but not in the physical realm when he made both? The answer is he does want us to experience happiness in both the physical and spiritual realm.
It isn’t right to find happiness by hurting the people you love or abandoning principles and sinning. God doesn’t want us to seek happiness by adopting the world’s attitude of “If it feels good do it.” He wants us to find happiness within the parameters of what’s morally right.
Some of us find it easier to find happiness. Some personalities are naturally more positive, easy going and contented than others. Some of us have been happy in the past and then been disappointed through life circumstances or people who have hurt us. Some also feel that if they feel happiness they will be punished or suffer loss. Others have grown up with the idea that their needs and desires don’t matter and have been trained to focus on other people’s needs and wouldn’t think of asking if they are happy.
I would encourage you to ask yourself if you are happy. If you are, think of the reasons why. If you are not, consider what would make you happy.
Here are some possibilities:
  • Find a purpose that involves using your talents and abilities.
  • Pursue a goal that improves your skills and abilities.
  • Reach out to new or old friends or a support group.
  • Deal with a difficult relationship problem that you have ignored.
  • Set a boundary in a relationship and stick to it.
  • Do something fun and enjoyable.
  • Set new priorities that reflect your real values.
  • Simplify your life.
  • Say no to things that aren’t good for you.
The list could go on. All of these things will bring you happiness that falls within areas that please God.
One more thing needs to be said: in a season of trials, it is hard to experience happiness, because of the heaviness of the circumstances. This is the time that you would need to count it all joy, because you know God is working in the midst of the trial. Joy in trials comes by faith—not in the circumstances. And, I am not saying that God doesn’t allow trials in our lives. He does. All of us will have trials and it is God’s will that we grow through them. There is a season for everything. I am simply saying God created in us the ability to feel happiness, satisfaction, joy, and pleasure and that it is pleasing to God when you experience those feelings

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Tuesday, 18 June 2013

THE ART OF SILENCE





There is “a time to be silent and a time to speak” (Ecclesiastes 3:7). Silence is truly an art that requires wisdom and discernment. Some of us find it easier to be quiet than to talk. All of us need to do both at the right times.
Silence shouldn’t be used:
  • To punish or hurt.
  • To manipulate someone into doing what you want.
  • To avoid responding to someone’s truth.
  • To avoid speaking the truth in love when it is right to do so.
Silence should be used when:
  • Speaking up will result in futile arguing. You don’t want to argue with someone who is angry, intoxicated, exhausted, overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, or emotionally unstable.
  • You will regret what you want to say.
  • You will use sarcasm, ridicule, belittling, name calling, contempt, or any other weapon intended to inflict hurt and pain.
  • It’s none of your business to comment. Remember to give people the dignity to figure things out for themselves.
  • You are overwhelmed and will be emotionally reactive. In this case, it is best to pick a different time to speak.
  • You can’t handle the other person having the last word. Try letting the person have the last word and not responding to whatever you want to argue about.
  • You’ve already said it and it is now nagging.
  • You’ve already said it and the person didn’t hear it and won’t hear it this time either. Why waste your energy and risk an argument when it won’t do any good?
Commit to developing the art of silence. I promise you that you will have less turmoil and more peace in your life and relationships.